Nevermind
Looks like poor planning and lack of technology has bitten us in the ass. Since I wasn't able to confirm our plans to go to the river house until last night at 11 pm none of the friends can make it. I should have just been confident that it was going to happen in the first place, and not been so wishy-washy. So we are going to the mall instead, it is what girls and gay boys want anyway.